| Location | Coventry |
| Age | 31 years |
| Cause of Death | Misadventure |
| Date of Birth | 08/12/1976 |
| Date of Death | 05/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,311 since 21/10/2008 |
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Ben was caring, loving,funny and flirty. He loved to joke and make you smile. He didnt like taking life too seriously, he wanted to have fun and enjoy everything to the best of his ability. He liked helping people, solving problems and trying to keep the peace. Ben was reliable and would always be there for a friend or family member in need. Family values meant a lot to him. He was very protective of those he loved and cared about. With a beautiful knock out smile and dazzling green eyes, he loved being centre of attention. A charmer with the ladies with lovely charisma. Ben was my future. We talked about so many plans and goals he wanted to reach. He wanted to succeed in business and was a dedicated hardworker. Polite mannerisms but got away with his cheekiness because thats who he was, he was never taken the wrong way by those who knew him. He reached low points in his life but still tried to better them, always searching for a way through. Those of us who knew him, knew him as a strong minded and determined person. He was confident and independent, but would give anything to help someone less fortunate than himself. A number one guy who can never be replaced. My first and last True love.
Sorry Mate
Been in Australia for 10 years as you know, we did not have to keep in touch with words, emails, calls etc to still know that when we next meet we would have hugged as good mate's would always do.
Stupidly i had not heard and still cant make sense of it, for me its fresh and just happened.
Sorry i was not there for Bec's, Angie and i hope that you and Jenny are laghing at the mistake sthat we all make.
Sorry Jen also i have only just heard.
Ben love ya Buddy.
Granty
A hole in my heart that can never be filled. The sickness i feel from losing you, gets no lighter. Not being able to see you or talk to you or hold you, cuts deeper than i ever thought possible. You are in my thoughts all the time. I still cannot believe you are gone. Love with everything i have, sammy xx
John Edward
His show was amazing, I walked in a sceptic, And walked out a believer.
I am definately returning to see him. This guy couldnt possibly have known what he knew.
Ben, Words cant explain how much i wish you were here. I would give anything just to hear your voice again. xx
11 Months!!?
I repeat it & say it out loud and I cant believe its been this long since i last saw your face. I hear your voice all the time in my head. Your cheeky laugh and the silly tone you take with me. I miss everything about you & more. My heart is yours always, Love you xx
Times a Healer?
Its been ten months....although my tears are fewer, The pain is still great. Losing you can never be explained into words. You were my everything, and still are. Love you always & Forever, till we meet again xx
3rd Loss...But Never Forgotten x
Just 8 months since you left us, The bad news came again today, Your sister jenny was taken from us suddenly. Please welcome her & watch over her family...Thinking of your mum, Becky & Other family very much xx how can 3 tradegys happen in the same family in such a short time, Such young lives too. Words cannot describe how i feel right now. xxx
Opening my eyes xx
What can i say, Youve certainly got as much energy on the other side as you did here. So many things are happening, Readings, and signs from you. Having always been skeptics, Your certainly doing your best to prove me & becky wrong. Anyway, Ive decided not to colour my hair red, as per your orders lol but im sorry to say im still doing the "other" haha. Its for my own self esteem babe. :-)Thinking of you all the time, and i cant wait for the next events to take place. Always looking out for you. Sweet dreams xx
Clairvoyant!!
Hey, Yesterday was at work serving a customer, when her mum started talking to me, She held my hand, Told me things were going to get better, Described you to a tee!! And said some things only i knew! How surreal, my first experience. She confessed to being a clairvoyant. Was a mad moment, quite tearful but reassuring. Love you xx
Crossing Over.....
Hey, Today I am feeling a little brighter, As Im going to see John Edward on the 16th September. I cant wait, Im hoping you will be there, Even if im not read, Seeing others go through the experience, gives me great feeling that you are around me. I dont need confirmation when i know, but its just the topping. I miss you more each day and I still cant believe your not here. Love always sammy xx
A sign?
How funny, I was at work, It was dreary, Really windy, the odd drizzle and cloudy, Not a spot of sunshine in sight. I went out for my break, brolly in hand. I was talking to you in my head. You brought the sun out for me, it lit my path to the bench where i sat, The warmth was lovely. I talked to you for a little while, then told you i was going in now. As i got up to leave, and walked towards the shop, You took away the sun. The wind returned, the dark clouds were once more. Then just a few days ago, I was working again, Once more talking to you, I wasnt happy, I had no break on the short straw shift. I needed to get out. The whole place erupted with alarms, The shopping centre was evacuated, workers included, The sun was bright, Everyone was cheery. The sky was blue. Half an hour i endured. Thank you xx In my dreams which are a few, You and I shared laughter, you piggy backed me along a corridor, we joked along the way, holding each other close. But My last dream of you, where i ran from you, It wasnt personal ben, I couldnt cope with it. My emotions were high, I hope i didnt upset you. Please visit me again, I promise i will be there just like before. Love always your sammy xx

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